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Hi all! It’s been quite a long time since I last posted anything. It’s a bad habit of mine, I know. Not quite sure what to write here today so it’ll probably be a messy post. If for some reason people haven’t noticed yet, I use my blog as a diary. More or less. The only difference here being that everyone can read it. Anyways. Last night I was out drinking with a bunch of friends. Mainly because it was a festival called Norway Rock which started off here where I live. I didn’t wanna miss that since I love rock! Though I have to admit that we went down to the bar a little to late. we missed the best performance according to one of my friends who had been there since the opening, but meh.. the performance I heard when I was there was nice as well. ^^ We first started off at Stian’s house and went downtown after that.

I must say that last night got me thinking. A girlfriend of mine said that she thought I was “fascinating”. I asked her what exactly is so fascinating about me, but then she calmly ignored me. That’s fine by me. I also found out that I’m a sad person. What makes you think that you might ask, but my logic is quite easy. Not all of my friends knew this, but I take it some did. One of my best friends is together with a girl I used to like. I even hinted to her about it when she was single, but I suppose she wasn’t interested in me so I quickly gave up on that. But I still were hanging out with her. Not alone though, together with a bunch of friends. But I guess it was around that time I started to get annoyed by her. Well not exactly annoyed, but when she said something really random out of the blue, I didn’t quite know how to respond to that so I guess I was.. uncomfortable around her. And seeing that my best friend seemed interested in her, I decided to keep my distance. So when they asked me if I wanted to hang out with a bunch of friends, I usually came up with excuses or said I had other things to do. And I guess that these feelings of mine made me rude when I talked to her. I’ve noticed it myself.

This is kind of linked to last night, because I were hanging out with them again when we were drinking. And seeing them together and being happy I felt that it was better that we didn’t get to know each other on a deeper level than friends.  Don’t misunderstand me. She is my type of girl, but I’ll support my best friend before I prioritize myself. I’ve always been that way, and always will. So I guess that I matured last night. I’m sure I haven’t, but I feel that I don’t have a reason to behave like an asshat around her, so I’ll atleast be more kind towards her. She’s my best friends girlfriend afterall. ^^

I have no idea when my lovelife will blossom, or if it ever will at all. but that’s something I’m not thinking to hard about. Simply because it’s beyond my control. When it happens it happens. Exactly when that is, time will tell. I don’t have anyone I want to get to know better or have an interest in at the moment so I’ll enjoy my single life for now.